Chat@Tey

I personally was taught to avoid making mistakes for almost my entire life and recognized it as the most terrifying thing. It is good somehow, but I learned that scare of making different in life is losing so much great opportunities you can think of. I am the type of person who might get the lowest score in terms of taking the risk because I took things seriously and from time to time is cautious. Later on, I gave myself more carefree space for adventure to try new things and making manageable mistakes along the journey. As my previous blog mention that I was not socialized enough in my teenage life where I limit my networking and hesitation to do things that I was capable of. Speaking of which, I was afraid of failing, mocking, judging, and every other things. Up until now, the experiences taught me the question "What if?". Asking myself this question helps me reflect on my past and current situation to decide what the next direction of life should look like.    I am gr...

Love the pool but didn't know how to swim yet :D   There are a million questions that might come to your head when you heard people from place to place define their beauty preference. The first reaction of yourself starts to come up when those people did not mention what you have owned in their categories.  How do you feel when you first hearing the criticism? Who should define all these beauty standards for you? How to measure it? Living in the region of skin bleaching makes people felt self-doubt from day to day and wish to do whatever to make themselves look exactly belong to the group of people they're living in. It is not a crime to make yourself look decent and attractive, but the question is "Is it worth it?" What would be worse spending too much time on one thing and haven't paid enough attention to another? This article is not to crush the readers, but to smash few terrible habits/ perspective and open the door to see things differently. I went through a ...